Go figure

one month, ONE STINKIN MONTH after I  toss my quilling supplies — saved, stored and sorted since the 70’s (I’m never gonna quill again, havent quilled for years.  blah blah blah) I find a picture of a wonderful Christmas ornament on Pinterest that is — wait for it — quilled.  damn.

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some days…

On days like today, especially at times like 6:59 this afternoon, I am so full of pride and admiration for my youngest daughter that I don’t know how to tell her without sounding sappy or condescending…. so I write.

This daughter of mine is without a doubt the strongest, most resilient, independent young woman I know.  She has battled many demons in her 30 years — eating disorders, assault, being the “youngest” child, high risk pregnancies….loss and betrayal.  And yet, she rises.  She falls and gets back up.  And shows very little the worse for wear.  Her strength and resolve, her joy and love, are astounding.  And something to be in awe of.

And I am.  continuously.

Love you punk.  to the moon and back.

different day — different crap

I work for an organization that provides workshops for young women in middle and high school.  My staff delivers programs based on issues that affect today’s youth:  self esteem, college and career preparation, diversity…the list goes on and on.

We cover the state.  A small state, admittedly, but we reach girls in all three counties.  I don’t do direct service — my staff does that.  I don’t get to spend much time in the classrooms or auditoriums where they do their magic, but every now and then an opportunity arises where I get to slip in, watch and maybe comment  a bit.

Today I left the house while it was still dark to travel the full length of the state to meet my newest employee as she presented a workshop to a group of 12 young ladies.  It was impressive.  They were involved, silly, pensive, soaking in every word that she said.  Three quarters of the way through the staff person at the site showed me her cell phone.  The words “bomb threat” jumped out at me.

Now I’m what you might call a “seasoned” professional.  Retired almost 3 years ago after 25 years of teaching in the public school sector.  I’ve seen my fair share of bomb threats.  Seen dogs sniffing through lockers.  Led kids to the auditorium, or the stadium or to whatever place we had previously determined would be the most “safe” in case the unthinkable happened.  Today was different.  I wasn’t staff.  And instead of being pushed into action, I was escorted, along with my employee, out of the building to my car.  They were concerned about our safety when all I wanted to do was get in there and keep those kids calm.  It was unsettling for someone who has told kids over and over “they’d have to get through me to get to you”.  But it wasn’t my gig, my school, my class.  So I sat in my car for a minute and watched the line of kids, maybe 4 abreast, marching quietly out of their school, onto the sidewalk and then onto the median — down the road, away from where there might be danger.  I counted 7 police cars at the entrances to the building.

And as I watched I felt an overwhelming sense of sorrow.  Not dread.  I was as sure as I can be that there was no one going to do these kids harm, this day, but sorrow.  I hate that they have to endure this. I hate that they know how to do this, to line up and walk across the street to who knows where. When I was in school we sat under our desks with our heads between our knees in case “they” dropped the bomb on our school.  Not likely.  When my kids, now in their thirties, had bomb scares they drove to dunkin donuts, played frisbee or softball in the parking lot.   Today, kids march, quietly, across the street.  Cell phones in hand, calling their moms.  Worried that this might be the day that they face danger.  And with the world the way it is, they have cause to worry.

There was no bomb.  There were calls to, last I heard, 5 schools in our state today, 7 yesterday.  Sorrow.  Just sorrow.

some days

you wake up early and the day is yours.  Anticipating a peaceful morning, a productive afternoon and a romantic dinner — a celebration.

and then it all hits the fan and nothing goes the way you expected.  i hate days like this.  And the knowledge that there will be more of them.

It may be time for a change or two.

crickets

Its been crickets in my head this holiday season.  Usually prolific and ready to drip words all over the page — I found myself pensive, quiet, and dare I say, introspective….

It was a wonderful 2 weeks.  Grandchildren and children, warm weather and thoughtful gifts.  Easy conversations and good food ….

punctuated, of course by bricks to the head.  jobs and relationships, fear and anger, bit into our joy, but were,  thankfully, beat down by the penchant this family has to love each other, and forgive each other , laugh together.

And, for some reason, at the end of the  day, I didnt feel the need to wax poetic on wordpress.

Ah well. such is life.  at any rate, my wishes are for all to have a healthy, peaceful New Year.1288