We have seven grandchildren. spread amongst 3 families — our two daughters and one son have been busy the past 7 years.
We plan a lot of family things. Pumpkin patch, visits to the tree farm, outside barbecues. Lots of noise and silliness, inevitable tears and frequent boo boos. Its work, but worth it, important to us that they grow up close, loving for and taking care of each other . Understanding that they are linked. forever.
And then there are days like today, when youngest daughter drops her two boys off so she and her husband can finish up their Christmas shopping. Her oldest Jax came in carrying a bag of marshmallows –and shortly after they left he and I went into the kitchen and made hot chocolate for him, his poppop and me. Little brother Ryder was asleep on the couch, so the three of us got to have a precious moment. Watching him sit there at the table, surrounded by Christmas decorations and homemade cookies, sipping his hot chocolate through the special candy cane decorated straws I bought for moments just like this — well, thats just probably one of the best things that will happen this season. unplanned, uncluttered and special, just for us.